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02/26/2010
Jason,
My man, I was recently planning a trip out to Vegas and I started
thinking about you. I still think of you as one of the best card
players I know, and I miss you bud. Your great moods and humor just
warmed hearts. I just wanted to let you know I still think about you
and miss you.
Dan Sparks
02/27/2009
My sweet Jason...what a beautiful, exciting, fun-loving child you were. We
will always miss the boating days....remember the storm...when you left your
mother and had to stay with us on the boat...what fun we had. You are a
hero. love, your old friends, char, skip and josh
05/14/2008 From one Fadness family to another: I came across this site quite accidentally while doing family research. What an awesome young man and what a loving family to post this tribute to him. I hope I’ve got some of the same genetics. Gene and Sharron Fadness Boise, Idaho Son of Stan and Jan Fadness of Deer Lodge, Montana Grandson of Emil Fadness
08/28/2007
Never met Jason. I wish I had. It's not clear what
the connection to Daryl. But I did know Daryl, and I am surprised not to
see some messages about him or about this special connection. Please let me
say that I miss DL, as he was a special character, too. And I will pray for
the souls of both these fine men, and their families..// Paul Rybon
07/13/2007
To be honest I'm not really ready to talk about Jason in depth but
I do want to say one thing...
I want to say that I LOVE you Jason and there isn't a second that
goes by that I don't think about you, Jeff, Sarah, or Jenny. I love you and
your family so much that I have no words to express how I feel. All I want
everyone to know is that I care so much about our friendships and our bonds.
I feel so lucky to have all of you in my life and even if we don't see one
another or talk to one another all the time. I want everyone to know that
the love is there and I feel it everyday and I feel complete knowing that
this is something I'll ALWAYS have in my life.
Thank you to all of you...
Love always,
Jessica Rimer
07/06/2007
As the Vegas trip
approaches I find myself thinking about Jason more and more everyday. I
have never made a post to the website, but I probably visit the site a dozen
times a week just to see if anyone else had written something new. I really
can’t explain why I never posted, but I did find comfort in what others had
written about Jason. I’m probably just going to ramble on with stories about
Jason but I’d like to share these stories with the friends who visit the
site. Jason used to watch how me and James would get along and ask James “How can you be so mean to your little brother?!” Well I pretty much answered that question for him as I got to know Jason a lot better. I cannot describe how lucky I am that I got to know Jason as well as I did. I know there are so many other people who knew him for so much longer and probably so much better than I will know, but I am grateful for the time I was able to spend with him. I still have the memories from the times I spent with him and I will always treasure them. Jason honestly made me feel like I had another brother which is not something easy to say. His enthusiasm for everything that he did was infectious. He brought me so much closer to the people I still hang out with today and may have never met. The trip to Vegas is in Jason’s memory and let us all keep him in our toasts, on our minds, and in our prayers always. Cheers to you Jason. -Matt O’Leary 05/21/2007
This is the first time in awhile that I have
been to this site. I think that I am going to kinda do what Tim did and
get out some of the feelings that I have. I have never posted on this
before and to be honest, I am going to open my heart up a little.
So ironically enough, it's 5:30 in the morning right now (apparently that is a good hour for inner reflection of Jason). I was talking to a friend about my friendship with Jason and pretty much the dynamic of our friends and it brought up a lot of feelings of the past (a little over) year. For those that do not know, I was one of Jason's good girl friends.
So if you knew Jason, he was a very easy
person to get along with, but to be considered a person that he cared
about, took a little more time. The bond that he made with people,
especially his friends, were paramount. You ask anyone that he is close
to, and you will know this. He was a good friend and he was a good
person. As a girl, it took me a little more time to be accepted in "the
group." I was one of the girls that just hung around. This was the case
for pretty much over a year or so. After highschool graduation, Jason,
Tim, John and I were probably the only people that were left at home.
This is when Jason and I became close. His house was the meeting place
for everyone to meet up and to see what was going on for the night and I
think that I spent an average of 4-5 days/nights a week there.
What is the point of all this you might ask... It took me over two years to become one of Jason's friends and not just "some girl that hangs out." It took me over two years to be part of the group. Why this is important is because if you know any of the people that were, and are part of Jason's life then you will know why these two years were worth it. They are a tough group to get into, but when you do, they view you like blood. I was lucky.
So now you have a little background.
Jason was funny, Jason was a free spirit, Jason was a good friend, Jason
was protective. Like I said before, I was talking to my friend
about Jason tonight and it made me think of friendship. It made me think
of every smile, every moment, and every memory that he has made an
imprint in my life personally. When I think of the past, it is also
hard for me not to think of the most recent past....
Jason has physically been gone for a little over a year. When I think of Jason, though, there is still more that I think about beyond that. He has brought people back together; he has put life back in perspective. I don't know if that is really going to make sense to a lot of people, but for those I am close with, they will know.... In writing this note here, I just wanted to say thank you to Jason. Thank you for the great people in my life that I have now, because if it weren't for you (and Tim a little bit (-: ) I would not know the people that I love and would do anything for... Thank you for the friendship that you gave me and for letting me know that you would be there if I needed you.... Thank you for your smiles, your moments, and every memory that I ever had with you... I thank you for letting me be in your life. Even though you may be gone, you never cease to brings things to my life even now. For those that are still here... I love you all ( you know who you are). For Jason... I love you still.
Amanda Busey
05/01/2007 I visit this site on a regular basis as I'm
sure most of you reading this do. 04/12/2007
April 12, 2007
For Jason:
I promised you a poem for your birthday....you gave
me one on mine
I suck at writing poems as you will shortly see....
Your poem to me was funny and witty but that was the
way you be.
It is the best poem ever; it made me go hee hee.
Your charm and wit was always a hit. You never bored
and you sure were adored.
Your laughter contagious your humor outrageous. The
stories you tell were funny as hell.
Thank you for the many memories that we all have
shared, thank you for your special ways you show how much you cared.
It's not the same without you here, too many sad
faces, too many many tears.
And just when it seems the pain will subside, a
memory will flash....with you back by our side.
You are a part of my family, you are a part of our
soul. You can't be replaced there shall be a hole.
I know that you look down at us while you dance among
the stars.....
With the wind at your back and the sun upon your
face....Heaven has been blessed, you're in a safe place.
At last I have completed this poem I had promised
you. The words may come off hooky but the feelings are true.
As you would always say as you leave my house
"later"
Happy Birthday Jason
Wanda
04/04/2007 I'm coming home this weekend and can't wait to
see you all, its a shame I'm going to miss the poker game tonight though, I have
an exam tomorrow!! My thoughts are with you and I thought maybe you could add
this message to the website: 04/04/2007
It has been 365 days since Jason left us and not one of those days went by
without me thinking about him. I know he is watching over us all and I hope
he watches over me when I am snowboarding down the double black diamonds out
here in Aspen!! Love ya Jason and the entire Fadness family.
-Matt Billingsly
04/04/2007 Hey
yall its Buddy just stopping by on this anniversary to say hello and to send my
love to all of the Fadness family, I LOVE YOU GUYS AND MISS YOU!! Heres to you
Jason I love ya man!! I miss you!! Buddy 4/4/07 04/04/2007
Fadness Family,
Like all who knew Jason, we cherish the special times spent with him and his
family.
With Jason, there was always plenty of laughter, smiles and good times to be
had.
And the same will continue in his memory.
We miss Jason and think of him always.
The Maloy family - Kreag, Debbie, Zachary and Alexander
03/18/2007
Your
web site tribute to Jason is touching, thoughtful, and evident of the loving and
supportive family Jason was blessed to be a member during his lifetime. I would like to extend condolences to the Family of Jason Fadness from the Family of Shawn Colleen Lunde.
Our
daughter passed away 7 months and 4 days after Jason’s passing.
Her
passing was also due to a tragic car accident.
We are
acutely aware of the pain and resulting feelings you are experiencing.
We hope
you are coping well with this very sad event of your lives. Carsten Lunde 12/16/2006 I CAME ACROSS JASONS WEB SITE BY ACCIDENT AND IT HAS TOUCHED ME IN SOME WAY , NOT SURE HOW BUT HE MUST OF BEEN VERY LOVED , GOD BLESS YOU ALL
STEVE UK
10/19/2006
Sorry to hear of the lose of your loved one .Please except our condolences
to friends and family. We came upon this message board and wanted to share
with you our sympathy, From what we read he truly was a wonderful
individual.
Our
condolences,
The Payne
family
7/28/2006
Dear Jeff, Sarah and Jenny,
I was reminiscing a few days ago with the photos
I have of Jason and thought you may want to post them on your website.
They are the same as some of the ones we used to make the large posters, but I
thought you should have the electronic copies as well. I think the website is
a wonderful way to keep Jason's presence around, and I hope you find as
much peace working on it as I do every time I visit the site. These pictures relive
such a happy summer at the bay and really make me smile. He always seemed to
find the camera in the room! I hope to see you sometime soon. Take care, much
love,
Marley
6/10/2006 Dear Fadness Family: Your all in my prayers, 6/6/2006
LOVE JESSICA LUSK 6/2/2006
Jeff:
I was a
retirement dinner for my sister tonight and heard from one of your friends of
the devestating and recent loss of your son Jason. My heart sank
when I heard this..... though I did not know Jason well I do remember
going to see him play baseball once and was impressed with how full of life he
was and how comfortable he was being himself. After reading the memorial
page that you put together, I can see how so many other people felt the same
way.
Life
will go on, and times will change but you are right that he will always remain
in your heart. One great thing that we as human beings have that helps
sustain us during trying and difficult times, is beautiful memories of the
ones that we have loved and cared for. It is apparent that you recognize
this and will embrace it.
My
family sends our best wishes for you and your family's healing during
this difficult time. I thank you for all the support that you gave us
during our trying time and if I can ever return it please let me know.
Best regards,
Art Nalls
5/31/2006
Dear Jeff and Family,
I
attempted to email you in late April, but it was returned as undeliverable.
Now I know why, as your email address has obviously changed. I can't
begin to imagine what you are feeling and selfishly, each day I pray that
I'll never have to. As I look back at my limited memories of Jason, I
remember a young man with all his senses; a sense of humor, sense of friendship,
a sense of family and a sense of respect for others.
As the
Fadness family car salesman at the time and although I wasn't a witness, I envisioned
Jason opening up the garage door on his 16th birthday, only to
find his brand new 2000 (Zinc Yellow) Mercury Cougar awaiting him. I was
happy to be a part of it. I also imagined your reaction when you
learned about the accident it was later involved in, only caring
about it's contents and hoping that a lesson was learned. Fortunately,
everyone was ok. Unfortunately, the car never was quite the same
and in time, the Zinc Yellow Cougar was replaced. I don't recall ever
seeing Jason since. However, Jason always respected my opinion about
vehicles and every so often, I'd get a random phone call at work and he'd pick
my brain and we'd discuss various automotive topics.
Jason also
shared a birthday with my daughter Jennifer. I'd always call him for
shock value, to wish him a happy birthday. The last time I'd spoken with
him was his 21st birthday. That's when he'd informed me of your pending
divorce. He was obviously upset by it, as I could feel the pain in his
words and that he also felt your pain. I told him to send you my regards
and just enjoy the day for what it was. After all, he was officially
"a man" and he should enjoy it with his friends. In the
duration of our 10 minute conversation, I could sense how much he'd matured,
since the last time we'd seen each other.
This April, I
was incredibly busy at work and couldn't find the time to call for his
birthday. Although I noted it on my day planner's "to-do list", in
hindsight, I guess it's best that I didn't call on that day. For as with each
future birthday, I'll simply have to remember to do so.
It's
been a few years since we've spoken and although our relationship was
mainly on a professional level, my family appreciated your thoughtful
invitation and still remembers our weekend at JeffLynn Shores.
It was always my pleasure to assist you with your vehicle
needs. Hopefully, we will once again meet up at some point in the future.
We all wish your entire family our sincerest condolences.
Mitch, Theresa, Jennifer & Mitchell Sulkess
5/17/2006 Hello” My name is kanu Sharma and I live in Canada, over the last year and till today I have been looking equipment for the various plants on QAM website for our group company has , and there has been keen interest on some of the items , so I called to speak to Jason which I have done on may occasions. I spoke to Kreag and to my shock he told me the news that Jason passed away. I am really sorry for you and empathize with you and your family, our prayers are with you, and as a Hindu I can only say that, those we need down on earth are more needed up in heaven, god bless his soul. Keep up the good work for the deaf people, Thank you Kanu Sharma, Vancouver 5/13/2006 Jeff, Jenny, and Sarah,
5/11/2006 Hey Jeff, 5/9/2006 “Your flops are so pretty!” The last words I ever spoke to Jason Fadness. If I had known then what I know now, I would have had a longer conversation with him. I had volunteered to be “permanent dealer” at the final table for a free poker tournament held in Fairfax, VA on April 2, 2006, I got down to about 3 players left when Jason comes to the table, sits one seat away and volunteers to be the “2nd permanent dealer”, I’d deal one hand and while I was shuffling he would deal another hand with a separate deck of cards. It was funny because we were just laughing it up, I would turn over some real ugly flops and then he’d deal and it would be A, K, Q….literally in that order. We just laughed because it happened like 4 times in a row, so that’s what I said to him “You sure have some pretty flops!” It was so much fun. I only knew Jason through poker, and that makes it hard for me because I wasn’t what you would call a “close friend” but I saw the same guy that everyone who is close to him sees. I really don’t think I ever saw him in a bad mood, he was so much fun to be around, he lit up the room with his smile and he just had so much energy you could barely keep up with him, and it breaks my heart to think that we’ll never see that big ole’ smile again! I remember playing in a Free Poker regional tournament a while back out in Sterling and when it was time for a break, we’re all outside taking a breather and Jason comes up to me, throws his arm around my shoulders and just goes “How ya doing girl?” He was asking about how I was doing in the tournament and I thought that was very nice to ask when he had so many other “close friends” around him. He really is a natural people person. He was just talking to my husband a week before his death about how excited he was that he was going to move to Vegas with his dad, he couldn’t wait to go. My husband said you could see the excitement in his eyes……”if he could have left right then he would have” my husband said. It’s weird you know, not knowing someone, then associating with them on brief occasions, but having them impact your life the way he did just takes me on an emotional rollercoaster! He was truly loved by many as you know and I send my deepest deepest condolences to the Fadness Family and everyone who loved Jason. I am so so sorry! Jennifer White Poker Buddy! 5/8/2006
Hello Jennifer,
I just finished visiting JasonFadness.com and I'm
truly sorry about losing someone so close to you, your dear brother. My
condolences to you and your family.
T'care.
-Alex Chu
5/3/2006 Jeff,
Cathy and I were very upset upon learning of
Jason's death. It brought back memories of our Michael (incidentally
those memories are with us daily) who died in an auto accident at age 24 in
1991.
We found great solice in an organization called
the Compassionate Friends which has local chapters throughout the US.
Parents and siblings meet on a regular basis with others who have experienced
the same loss- the loss of a child. Their National Headquarters is:
P.O. Box 3696
Oak Brook, IL 60522-3696
877-969-0010
Carl
5/3/2006 Dear Jeff, 4/30/2006 Jeff, I sent this on to Buddy and his sisters so they can visit it.
This is a great tribute to Jason. Teresa and I are holding y'all up in our
prayers. April 29, 2006 Jeff, Jenny & Sarah, Love, 4/28/2006 Dear,
Jeff, Jenny & Sarah
It was beautiful. What a wonderful tribute to a
wonderful son, brother and our friend.
We love you.
Mike, Diane, Andy Ryan
4/27/2006
thanks for sending this - it's very special to myself and Debbie and I will
show it to all my family and everyone I can ---
we miss Jason
4/27/2006 Jeff, Wanda told me about this site. You have done a wonderful job -
what a 4/27/2006 Jeff, 4/14/2006 Hi,Jeff I received your massage sir,I was out of town but I came back today 4/9/2006 Jeff,
I am sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to bury their
child. I've spent a lot of time with Sarah at Robinson and know how much
her brother meant to her. Please extend my love and prayers to her.
Unfortunately my family is traveling to the Pittsburgh area over Easter
weekend - I was hoping to come to the memorial service to support you and your
family (your extended family of Wanda and Jenna too) but will not be able.
Please let me know if there are any other ways that I can support you and
your family in your time of grief.
My most sincere and deepest sympathies are with you and your family,
Matt Berg
4/8/2006 Langdon
Farm Homeowners Association Dear
Members, It
is very sad to know that Jeff Fadness son Jason Fadness
was killed in an automobile accident on the 4th. Are prayers and
sympathy going to Jeff, Jason, Jenny, Sarah and all his family and may the
memory of Jason and the special life they shared help ease the sadness and their
loss. Monica Ajmani. 4/7/2006 Jeff,Jenn,and Sara 4/5/2006 Dear Jeff, 4/4/2006
Jeff, I cannot find words to describe my extreme sorrow and don't know
how to write to you - I am shocked, very very sad, and terribly
sorry for the tragedy! Although I didn't know Jason well, I liked
him when we first met. He was a bright, kind, hard working young men who
reflected so much of you. I just want you to
know, his loss is a lose to all of us. He will be remembered and
will always be in my memory. Take care of yourself, for him
and for me!
Ya-Ping
4/4/2006 Jeff, From Washington Post Guest Book
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